Honesty time: Have you ever looked at someone who is obese and thought to yourself, "That person lacks the willpower to eat less and exercise." Almost declaring them less than or deserving of their condition? You are not alone in this thought, but let me be very clear: you are wrong.
According to the American Psychological Association, willpower is the ability to resist short-term temptations in order to meet long-term goals. (APA, 2012). We can further define this as overriding unwanted thoughts, feelings, or impulses. In this regard, it seems reasonable to connect an inability to overcome the temptation of overeating to a person's willpower. But willpower depletes when conditions diminish. Studies show that if a person feels persistently bombarded with choices and stress, they will eventually break down and succumb to temptation. So yes, your mother was right when she warned you about hanging out with those friends she saw as bad influences.
If willpower is the ability to resist short-term temptations and impulses in order to achieve long-term goals, it involves the capacity to override an unwanted thought, feeling, or impulse, and is often likened to a muscle that can be strengthened with use but also fatigured. While willpower can play a role in many aspects of life like diet and exercise, it's important to understand that it is not the sole factor determining body weight.
In summary, while sheer will can contribute to making healthier choices, it's not even close to the sole determinant of an individual's weight. Acknowledging the broader range of factors involved in weight management is crucial for developing more effective and compassionate approaches to addressing obesity and promoting overall health.
When willpower is overcome by all the factors discussed above, some people experience shame for the inability to control their cravings, hunger, and weight. Shame is the single most destructive experience for those who struggle with the idea that they are not their ideal weight. With the help of a holistic medically managed weight program, GLP-1 medications, and integrated mental health programming, millions of people can now achieve their ideal, healthy weight. More importantly, they can now maintain it throughout their life.
If you or someone close to you struggles with their weight, call 801-851-5554 today or email hello@kindlymd.com to set up a free consultation with a healthcare professional and discuss the right treatment plan for you.